How can war be reconciled with the moral imperative to respect others and to deal peacefuly with anger, insult

How can war be reconciled with the moral imperative to respect others and to deal peacefully with anger, insults and disagreements?|||How is it a moral imperative to respect others and deal peacefully with anger, insults, and disagreements? Those things only come into play when people who show mutual trust (or mutual fear) and that is very difficult to come by.





Trust is generally associated with respect which, for most people, must be earned and that is usually through conflict of some sort (be it military or otherwise). For those that need conflict to earn respect, it comes from how we fight and how we treat prisoners and how we treat enemies.